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“At Sunflower, my daughter was given as much time and space as she needed. No one hurried her, judged her, persuaded her or made her participate. She did this on her own when she was ready, when she chose to, and that made all the difference to her.”
–Jennifer Zoole, Sunflower mom to Audrey, age 4
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From August to May: One family’s story of a year in Seedlings
As told to Sunflower by Jennifer Zoole, Sunflower mom to Audrey, age 4
How did you first discover Sunflower?
A friend attended Circle of Song and texted me the info. I tracked down the website and discovered what Sunflower’s philosophy was and that it was a preschool. I was so excited, I read everything on the website twice that night! It was just what I had been searching for but not been able to find.
Why did you choose Sunflower?

There was no other choice! I had been looking at preschools for months and, discouraged, had finally given up my search. What I saw at preschools were children sitting inside, adults directing play and lists of academic curriculum for three-year-olds.
We live in a small townhouse, and we don’t have a yard. What I wanted for Audrey was interaction with children, outdoor time and free play. Audrey is naturally drawn to books and creating. She was learning so much on her own by observing, considering, asking questions and experimenting, because she wanted to. We didn’t want this self-taught learning, her natural curiosity and initiative, to be disrupted so early in her childhood.
What was your impression of the physical space at Sunflower?
It was comfortable, inviting, exciting. Though it was a new space last year, it wasn’t in the least awkward or cold, as a brand-new place often feels
What surprised you about Sunflower?
When I attended the introduction meeting and Susan explained that the children could choose to be inside or outside, to spend the entire time painting or reading or playing with water, I was really excited. I had never heard of or even considered the possibility of a preschool that gives children so many choices! For Audrey to have three hours to do whatever she wanted, to make her own choices, to have guidance with choices if she needed it… that was amazing.

Audrey and Jennifer in the beginning
Describe Audrey’s first month at Seedlings.
Audrey’s first month was tough for me. I was so sure that she would love everything that Sunflower offered, but mostly I saw a very anxious child standing as far away from everyone as possible! Audrey would watch and listen, observing everyone and everything. In hindsight, I realized she may not have been playing much, but she was learning a lot.
This actually went well beyond the first month. Audrey continued to observe, at first with me nearby, and later sticking close to a teacher and occasionally becoming interested in an activity and wandering off by herself to check it out.
She learned that if she had problems finding her voice (such as wanting personal space), a teacher or adult could help her. What Audrey needed most of all was time. At Sunflower, she was given as much time and space as she needed. No one hurried her, judged her, persuaded her or made her participate. She did this on her own when she was ready, when she chose to, and that made all the difference to her.
What changes did you see by the end of the year?
Audrey became a child who genuinely enjoys the company of other children! Playing and conversing with kids has become fun, energizing and interesting as opposed to scary, confusing and worrisome.
I had my assigned parent helper afternoons in Seedlings, but I was also there for several months while Audrey still wanted me. I always left Sunflower feeling energized, inspired and better equipped as a parent.
Why do you love Sunflower?
I love that it is always evolving. Everyone was always considering: what is working? what could be better? let’s move this over here. let’s try this. what do you think? I wonder what the Seedlings will do with this? To me, this shows how tirelessly committed everyone at Sunflower is to giving children the most enriching experience possible.
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